Audible Book Review of "A Grown Up Guide to Dinosaurs" by Ben Garrod. It was well worth the listen. Here is my short summary and highlights of the audio program.

Warning - It will make you want to watch all the Jurassic Park movies again!

The blog post I didn't want to have to write; I was hoping Frankie would not get ROP (Retinopathy of Prematurity). I knew he was at risk because of his gestational age, low birth weight, use of oxygen, and anemia but I hoped we could skip it. Just like I am hoping he doesn't require a blood transfusion like many extreme preemies do.

His first eye exam at 31 weeks showed no signs. The paper the eye doctor left behind read "Your baby does not have ROP, but could develop problems later because the retinal blood vessels are still not fully mature. Your baby should have a ROP exam in 2 weeks." Alright, no big deal.

His second eye exam at 33 weeks showed stage 1 ROP (explanation of stages to follow), not requiring treatment, just follow-up in two weeks. This time I was here for the exam but they asked me to leave the unit. I went to fill up my water and it was done before I got back. The paper the eye doctor left behind read "Your baby has ROP. The ROP is not enough to require treatment. It is important to understand that ROP can change suddenly, placing your baby in danger. Your baby needs an ROP exam in 2 weeks." I could not believe that the eye doctor would not have stopped to talk to me. She just marked the box on the sheet. I asked for a second opinion and spoke to Frankie's neonatologists; as usual I did my research too.

Frankie just had another eye exam and the box was checked "Your infant's eyes have mature blood vessels and are at low risk for developing ROP. Other diseases, such as crossed eyes, lazy eye, and extreme nearsightedness, occur more frequently in premature infants and may only become apparent when the infants are older. Follow-up care for your infant will be on an as needed basis." And she wrote in "in six months."

While Frankie is in the clear now for ROP here is what I know about it:

• The blood vessels that supply the retina are one of the last parts of the eye to mature. Full term infants eyes are barely fully developed; so preterm infants still have some maturing to do in this area. Free radicals caused by excess oxygen(most preemies are on oxygen) can hinder this maturation process causing ROP.
  
• Added risk factors for ROP include premature birth (duh!), apnea, anemia, heart disease, infections, respiratory issues, bradycardia (slow heart rate), and blood transfusions... to name a few.
• ROP in infancy puts child at greater risk for retinal detachment, blindness or vision loss, nearsightedness, lazy eye, glaucoma, and crossed eyes.
  

Stages (how abnormal the blood vessels are) and whether or not treatment is required: 

1. Mild - no treatment require, often resolves on it's own.
2. Moderate - often no treatment required and also often resolves on it's own.
   
3. Severe - sometimes no treatment but sometimes treatment is required to prevent retinal detachment.
   
4. Severe plus partial retinal detachment - requires treatment.
   
5. Total retinal detachment - requires treatment, often surgery.
   

Great other resources to learn more:
​https://www.marchofdimes.org/baby/retinopathy-of-prematurity.aspx
​https://www.aao.org/eye-health/diseases/what-is-retinopathy-prematurity
​https://nei.nih.gov/health/rop/rop

Quick podcast on when to test your blood sugar, what abnormal may look like, why I test, and a little on the different types of diabetes. 
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DISCLAIMER: This podcast is not intended to diagnose, treat, or mitigate any disease. Please consult a healthcare practitioner prior to making any changes to your dietary or supplement program. 

Frankie is one month old today. He will be in the NICU for at least another month if not two. Thirty days of pumping, being driven back and forth to the hospital, and in general not really feeling like it is all real. Talking to case workers, counselors, as well as friends and family and it appears we are coping very well.

People at the beginning of this journey asked me if there was any way they could help to let them know. I didn't have a response then. I didn't know what help we would need. I knew we didn't need anything like a GoFundMe but now I am realizing a little financial boost would help take off some of the stress. We are not asking for handouts... we want you to get something in return for supporting us. So how can you help? Buy some protein (we have it in stock at athlonnutrition.com). Purchase a planner (also in stock at timemanaged.com). Don't need supplements or a planner? Get the exclusive "Say Hello to my Little Friend" tote bag at dudewranch.com.

Future posts will be about Science... Frankie is just kind of LIFE right now :)

Happy Fourth of July! When I was a kid this day meant block parties and fireworks; it also meant going down to the Pismo Pier where my Grandpa, Uncle and Aunt would help put on the big show. Nothing beat feeling the pier rattle and rumble while watching the fireworks light of the sky; knowing my family had something to do with it.

When I moved to Idaho the Fourth took on a different meaning... traffic. Haha. It meant everyone was headed North and it would take extra time to get home any day near the Fourth. It also means volunteering at and sometimes Chairing the Gem State Kiwanis Pancake Feed.

Today it is just another day with a trip to the NICU to visit Frankie (day 29) and an afternoon taking the kiddos to the river to cool off. I look forward to when Frankie is well enough to come home and life can start to feel normal again.

What does the Fourth of July mean to you?5